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This failure to take into account the existence of non-Orthodox Jews is troubling but not surprising. There is a real divide between Orthodox Jewry and more liberal movements, and it goes against the ideological foundations of Orthodoxy to acknowledge the legitimacy of those groups. Klal Yisroel, as they see it, is not the Jewish population as it exists, but an idealized Orthodox community whose continuity goes back to the Bible. Other manifestations of Judaism are not, in this view, genuine expressions of Judaism.
That’s why Orthodox outreach to non-Orthodox Jews, particularly when it is premised on Jewish unity, is so patronizing. For the Agudah to boast of “Jewish unity” in this context is an insult to others disguised as a compliment to themselves. They praise their own cohesiveness while excluding us from it, and expect congratulations.
Yet we of the non-Orthodox camps (and here I’ll raise the flag of the secular, cultural Jew) would be wise to look inward, as well. Among my Jewish friends and colleagues, we are more likely to talk about the “Jewish community” than about “Klal Yisroel.” In that formulation it is the Orthodox — and especially the ultra-Orthodox — who constitute the Jewish “other.” Just as they exclude us, there is a corresponding alienation of our own toward them, whom we treat with fascination, repulsion and bewilderment. We may be acquainted with Matisyahu’s latest psychodrama, or even with Lipa Schmeltzer, but the rabbis and roshei yeshiva, academic heads, who set the pace of Orthodoxy are to us virtually unknown. The kind of Judaism on display at the Siyum HaShas is thought of as the fundamentalist fringe, and there is a sense that we (mainstream American Jews) and they (black-clad fanatics) are not of the same tribe. When it comes to being Jewish, we occupy mutually exclusive paradigms.
Recently this sense of estrangement has been changing, from casual dismissal to a deeper anxiety. Mass gatherings of ultra-Orthodox Jews, like the anti-Internet gathering at Citi Field in May, and the Siyum HaShas in August, have provided visible demonstrations of Orthodox numbers and made those communities of greater interest to the mainstream media. More important, the recent Jewish population survey conducted by UJA Federation of New York put those events in the context of a larger demographic realignment that will make the ultra-Orthodox less and less the exception to the American Jewish rule. We are being forced to redefine what constitutes the mainstream, and the longer we treat the ultra-Orthodox as a fringe element, the more we are, in our own way, clinging to an illusion at the expense of reality.
We need to contend with this problem rather than avoid it. We need not ape Orthodox practice — when it comes to Jewish learning, I would rather read Yiddish literature than the rabbinic arcana of the Talmud — but we need to be familiar with it. Orthodoxy may not be the only strain of Judaism, and it may not have the authenticity it pretends to possess, but it is Judaism nonetheless, even (maybe especially) in its illiberal aspects. If we care about Judaism, Jewish culture or the Jewish people, we need to reject ultra-Orthodox exclusionism as well as also our own estrangement from it. We should acquaint ourselves with the Orthodox ethos rather than be alienated by it. Jewish unity does not mean that we agree on all points or even share the same values. But it does require that we possess the wherewithal to argue intelligently and to speak across to each other, rather than down. It does require, in a broad sense, that we be “on the same page.”
Ezra Glinter is the deputy arts editor of the Forward.