Keep Your Girlfriend's Christianity Away from Our Kids

My husband and I divorced last year and he is now dating a Christian woman. Divorce is never fun, but I am doing okay all things considered and my ex and I are civil.

We have two kids, 8 and 11, and I want to request that they not do anything Christian with his new girlfriend. This is a crazy enough time for us and, at least for the time being, I don’t think they need anymore confusion in their lives. We are Conservative Jews and were and are involved with our synagogue. Seesaw, is this a reasonable request to make of my ex? I don’t want to sound bitter.

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