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Steve Witkoff, Trump’s golf buddy when would-be assassin took aim, said they became friends over a ham sandwich

Witkoff has tried to humanize Trump — in court, and at the Republican National Convention

When a would-be assassin took aim at former President Donald Trump on a Palm Beach golf course Sunday, his friend and golfing buddy Steve Witkoff was by his side. Neither was hurt and it’s unclear if the suspect, armed with an AR-15 assault rifle, was able to get off a shot before he was spotted by the Secret Service. 

Who is Witkoff, Trump’s longtime Jewish friend?

Bronx-born real estate mogul

The son of a manufacturer of women’s coats, Witkoff, now 67, was born in the Bronx and raised on Long Island. He graduated from Hofstra University in 1980, its law school in 1983, and joined the New York real estate law firm Dreyer & Traub, where Donald Trump was a client. In those days Witkoff wore “frayed collars” and “Moe Ginsberg suits,” he said in a 2017 interview, referencing the now-closed discount Manhattan men’s clothing store.

“Everyday you were representing these swashbuckling guys,” Witkoff said of the real estate moguls who contracted with the firm. “They felt like rock stars to me.”  

Witkoff and a partner, Laurence Gluck, in 1985 founded Stellar Management (a play on their first names, Steve and Larry) during booming times for Wall Street and the New York real estate market. They bought what they could afford: New York tenements that cost a few hundred thousand dollars in Harlem, Washington Heights and the Bronx. 

He married Lauren Rappoport, and the couple had three sons: Zach, Alex and Andrew, who died of an opioid overdose in 2013. Five years later, when Trump was president, Witkoff spoke at the White House Opioid Summit.

He founded the Witkoff Group in 1997, which also employs his wife and surviving sons.

Witkoff gravitates to iconic properties, and has purchased the Woolworth Building, the Daily News building and Park Lane hotel in New York, among dozens of others.

His success inspired a front-page 1998 profile in The Wall Street Journal, which he resented for its depiction of him, in his early real estate years, as a frenetic, overextended speculator who liked the “Godfather” movies and wore a licensed handgun on his ankle.”

He testified at Trump’s fraud trial — about a golf course and a ham sandwich

Witkoff was the first witness Trump’s lawyers called in the New York attorney general’s $250 million fraud case against the former president in Manhattan in November.

The states’ attorneys unsuccessfully tried to block Witkoff from taking the stand. He testified briefly about how one of Trump’s properties, the Doral golf course in Miami, was undervalued. The judge agreed with the state’s lawyers that the matter was not relevant to the case.

But perhaps the ham sandwich was?

Witkoff told the court that he became friends with Trump at a New York City deli in 1986 after they had worked on a transaction together. Trump had no cash on him so “I ordered him a ham and swiss,” Witkoff said.

They ran into each other about seven years later, Witkoff continued, and Trump remembered “the sandwich incident” and they’ve been friends since, with Wiktoff advising him on his taxes during his presidency.

He has given generously to Trump — but also to his rival

Witkoff has donated more than $2 million to Trump’s political action groups, according to ProPublica.

But he has also given a six-figure sum to Ron DeSantis and held a fundraiser for him at his Miami Beach home in 2021 as the Florida governor geared up in 2021 for a primary fight against Trump, Politico reported. More recently Witkoff has helped raise money and campaign for Trump, who beat DeSantis easily in the primary.

He spoke about his son’s death at the RNC to humanize Trump

Witkoff and his son Zach, the executive vice president of development at his father’s firm, took the podium at the Republican National Convention last month to humanize Trump.

Zach Witkoff, who had his 2022 wedding at Trump’s Mar-A-Lago resort, said “the president tore up the dance floor until four in the morning with his signature moves.”

Steve Witkoff told the convention about the death of his son who overdosed, recalling how Andrew befriended and fed the dozen homeless people who hung out outside the church next to the Witkoff’s home, in a Trump property on New York’s Park Avenue.

Witkoff address the Republican National Convention in August 2024.

“He and President Trump shared something in common,” Witikoff said. “My boy stood up for people, no matter which side of the train tracks they came from.”

Witkoff said he gave Andrew’s guitar to “fellow music lover Donald Trump.”

“President Trump didn’t say something nice to me and put it in a closet somewhere,” Witkoff said. “He put it right out front at his Trump International West Palm Beach property where he and I both see it whenever we walk in and play.”

I know this man very well,” Witkoff said. “President Trump is as kind and compassionate a man as I’ve ever met in my lifetime.”

He blasted Democrats after Netanyahu’s July address to Congress 

Witkoff attended Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu’s address to Congress in July, and found it moving, especially when Netanyahu talked about the hostages in Gaza — some of whom were at the Capitol that day. 

But some Democrats, objecting to Netanyahu’s prosecution of the war, boycotted the speech. Others gave Netanyahu a cold reception. 

“It felt spiritual,” Witkoff said on the Fox Business channel the next day, “and yet, that’s not the reaction you sense that you were getting from many of those Democrats.”

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