On Campus

Brothers — But Then, Not: The close friendship between Eun Bae (left) and AEPi member Robbie Pearlmutter moved Bae to bid AEPi at Ohio State, which admitted him — until pressure from national AEPi officials forced the frat to rescind the offer. Image by Courtesy of Eun BaE
Read the Original Article Here
College campuses today can whiplash many young Jews with two seemingly contradictory big ideas: the importance of openness, equality and non-discrimination; and the importance of taking pride in and asserting the values that stem from one’s own cultural background.
An investigation by the Forward in September demonstrated that the tension between these two principles was nowhere more evident than in Jewish fraternities. And the largest of those fraternities, AEPi, has been at the nexus of this tension.
By its own self-description, AEPi is a “Jewish fraternity, though nondiscriminatory and open to all who are willing to espouse its purpose and values.” But with increasing frequency AEPi’s national office has been pressuring its house chapters on campuses around the country to reject non-Jews who want to rush the fraternity, and even get rid of some they have accepted. In one case, at The Ohio State University, the national office forced the AEPi chapter to eject a popular young Korean student it had already taken in.
The fraternity’s national office appears concerned first and foremost with maintaining an enduring sense of Jewish cultural cohesion for its young members amid a situation in which other once-Jewish fraternities have simply dropped their Jewish self-identity. But young Jews on campus are left confused at the mixed message they are getting not just from their campuses but the AEPi’s own mission statement.
What do you think?
This is a moment of great uncertainty. Here’s what you can do about it.
We hope you appreciated this article. Before you go, we’d like to ask you to please support the Forward’s independent Jewish news. All donations are still being matched by the Forward Board - up to $100,000 until April 24.
This is a moment of great uncertainty for the news media, for the Jewish people, and for our sacred democracy. It is a time of confusion and declining trust in public institutions. An era in which we need humans to report facts, conduct investigations that hold power to account, tell stories that matter and share honest discourse on all that divides us.
With no paywall or subscriptions, the Forward is entirely supported by readers like you. Every dollar you give is invested in the future of the Forward — and telling the American Jewish story fully and fairly.
The Forward doesn’t rely on funding from institutions like governments or your local Jewish federation. There are thousands of readers like you who give us $18 or $36 or $100 each month or year.

