Germs and Manners at 30,000 Feet

Dear Bintel Brief,

On a plane recently in the row in front of me sat a mother and a young child. The child was sick and suffering loudly. She coughed and sneezed on the window, and the mother didn’t bother to wipe the germs. I debated with myself over whether or not to tell the flight crew after we disembarked, since the next person to sit in the seat could get sick. I said nothing, and then felt guilty. What should I have done?


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