Model Emily Ratajkowski accuses fashion photographer of sexual assault

Ratajkowski in 2019. Image by Getty

By Irene Katz Connelly September 16, 2020

Jewish model and actress Emily Ratajkowski accused fashion photographer Jonathan Leder of sexual assault in an searing essay for The Cut.

Ratajkowski wrote that in 2012, she traveled to the photographer’s Catskills home as an unknown 20-year-old model to participate in a photoshoot for which “exposure,” not money, would be the compensation. After plying her with wine before the shoot, she said, Leder told her to pose nude and took advantage of the fact that she was drunk to digitally assault her.

It was a night she tried to forget — until, years later, she discovered that Leder had turned dozens of the photos into a book, to which the Schmooze will not link, titled “Emily Ratajkowski” (and in its second run, even more grossly, “Two Nights With Emily”) which he published without consulting or compensating her.

Reflecting on the difficulty of controlling her own image, Ratajkowski recounts that experience as part of a litany of incidents in which her photographs enriched not her, but more powerful men around her. In 2014, for example, she discovered that she was a subject in artist Richard Prince’s “Instagram Paintings,” a much-lauded series in which the artist created paintings out of real celebrity Instagram posts. One was a nude photo from Ratajkowski’s feed which dated from her first Sports Illustrated shoot, for which she was paid $150. Now it was selling for $80,000 — none of which would go to her.

The Emily Ratajkowski piece is truly courageous. It’s brought home to me how wrongly dismissive I’ve sometimes felt about her and other women who appear to benefit from the ‘privilege’ of staggering beauty.I shouldn’t have needed reminding that all bodies can be hard to live in.

— Daisy Buchanan (@NotRollergirl) September 15, 2020

Leder used Ratajkowski’s reputation as a sex symbol — to which he has inarguably contributed — to question her credibility. In a statement to The Cut, he derided Ratajkowski for appearing in Thicke’s music video and posing naked elsewhere — actions that, to him, apparently renders women forever unworthy of seeking redress for any grievance. “You really want someone to believe she was a victim?” he said.

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Ratajkowski hasn’t published much, but she occasionally posts on Instagram about the authors that get her thinking, an eclectic bunch that includes bell hooks, Martin Hagglund, and Hilton Als. In May, she told British GQ that she’s spent her time in isolation working on a collection of essays that explores questions similar to the ones this piece addresses, like the paradox of being “someone who has capitalised on their image and also someone who has been maybe a victim of their image.”

If the end product is anything like this piece, we’ll be linking to that.

Irene Katz Connelly is an editorial fellow at the Forward. You can contact her at [email protected]. Follow her on Twitter at @katz_conn.

Irene Katz Connelly is a staff writer at the Forward. You can contact her at [email protected]. Follow her on Twitter at @katz_conn.

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